SUNIL GUPTA
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Friends & Lovers: Coming Out in Montréal in the 1970s

“Social Security” (The Showroom, London 1988), an earlier archival project, documenting my Indian family’s migration to Montreal in 1969 avoided the underlying developing friction that I was also coming out as gay. In this exhibition, I’m reaching into my archive of images once again to describe my assimilation into Canada via an early embrace of the gay liberation movement in Montreal and the development of another family, an extended gay family. My hobby had a purpose suddenly and I documented people and places around me. Coincidentally the initial location of the movement was ‘Gay McGill’ and since I shared an apartment with my sister and then lover just two blocks away on Sherbrooke and Stanley, the apartment became an informal hub. People hung out, everything was discussed, the bars were down the road, and I made pictures for the fledgling paper; the aftermath of the fire at the sauna, the facades of bars, the early gay liberation marches and so on.  My parents were slightly bemused and came to visit almost every day. I gave them a reading list to help them understand but I don’t think they took me up on it. They thought it was a phase. But it wasn’t and I never came to live with them and I never got married and ‘settled down’ in their eyes as a proper Indian son. Instead I followed my lover further and further away; first to New York and then to London, with the expanding gay family everywhere.
  • Home
  • Photography
    • Friends & Lovers: Coming Out in Montréal in the 1970s
    • Christopher Street, New York 1976
    • London 1977
    • Cruising 1960s Delhi
    • Towards an Indian Gay Image
    • London 1982
    • Lovers: Ten Years On
    • Reflections of the Black Experience
    • Asians in Bradford
    • Exiles
    • Social Security
    • "Pretended" Family Relationships
    • Trespass 1
    • Trespass 2
    • Trespass 3
    • From Here to Eternity
    • The Body Positive
    • Love and Light
    • Imagining Childhood
    • Homelands
    • Tales of a City: Delhi
    • Country: Portrait of an Indian Village
    • Mr Malhotra's Party
    • Anonymous Self Portraits
    • Love, Undetectable
    • Women in Love
    • The New Pre-Raphaelites
    • Sun City
    • Stockwell
    • Helmut Lang Christopher Street
    • Dissent and Desire
    • Songs of Deliverance — Part I
    • Songs of Deliverance — Part II
    • Walworth Road
    • Arrival
  • Books
    • An Economy of Signs
    • Disrupted Borders
    • Ecstatic Antibodies
    • Trespass 1
    • Sunil Gupta Monograph
    • Pictures From Here
    • Wish You Were Here
    • Queer
    • Delhi: Communities of Belonging
    • Christopher Street
    • Lovers: Ten Years On
    • London 1982
    • From Here To Eternity
    • We Were Here : Sexuality, Photography, and Cultural Difference
    • Come Out
    • Tessa Boffin Ed. Sunil Gupta
    • Tate Photography: Sunil Gupta
  • Shop
    • Limited Edition Prints
    • Books For Sale
  • Video
  • Curating
    • Stevie Bezencenet
    • Joy Gregory
    • Same Difference
    • The New Republics
    • Simryn Gill
    • Divine Facades
    • Fernando Arias
  • Newsletters
    • 2025
    • 2024 Archive
    • 2023 Archive
  • Columns
    • A Return from Exile
    • Relative Values
    • The End of Marriage
    • A Laying on of Hands
    • City of Dreams
    • Oral History
    • Pride and Prejudice
  • Press
  • About
  • Contact